Monday, April 21, 2008

Service

The arrangements have been made for Jackie's service.

The funeral services will be held
on Wednesday, April 23rd at 1:30pm at

First Baptist Church
204 W. Fulton Street
DeKalb, TX
75559

Viewing of the body will be from 11:00 - 1:30 in the same location.

Immediately following the graveside service at New Hope Cemetery, coffee and dessert will be served at Jackie and Vivian's home. Directions will be provided.

In lieu of flowers, donations to the New Hope Cemetery would be appreciated and can be sent to:

New Hope Cemetery Fund
703 CR 4311
DeKalb, TX
75559

Sunday, April 20, 2008

A Peaceful End

We are saddened to let you all know that Jackie passed away Sunday evening around 5:50. He went very peacefully with no pain surrounded by his family and friends.

We are working to determine the day and time for the service and will post again tomorrow to let you all know. Thanks to all of you for your thoughts, prayers and continued support.

Friday, April 18, 2008

Down to Days

The doctor told us this afternoon that we are down to days. Jackie had a seizure last night, and they put in a catheter and hooked him up to oxygen. We are going to be in in-house hospice here at the hospital in Texarkana (Wadley). They moved us down the hall to a suite which is much more conducive to visiting (rooms 588 and 589). If you wish to come and visit, feel free to.

Jackie's mother and brother are here with us tonight. The hospital staff has been wonderful, and we have a wealth of extended family and friends who have been here for us throughout. We are blessed!

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Condition Worsens

Jackie is still sleeping a lot, and his ability to communicate has not improved. It is very frustrating for him. His medical oncologist finally returned, and we saw him last night. It was a sad night. He said his condition has deteriorated to the point that chemo is no longer feasible. He is so weak and shows no signs of improving. The doctor says the disease is taking over and that our goal should be to make him commfortable. He started to show signs of pain yesterday (headache), and that worsened today. They put him on a morphine pump and put a pain patch on him. Hopefully, he will rest well tonight.

Jackie's brother and family came to the hospital last night. They live in Seattle. His brother is at the hospital with him tonight, so I came home a short while ago for a night of rest in an actual bed.

The doctor recommended that we consider hospice when we are released from the hospital. We don't know when that will be at the present time. I expect it will be soon though. This is all happening so fast that it just doesn't seem real.

Monday, April 14, 2008

Neurosurgeon's Visit

I spoke with my Mother this evening and she asked me to post an update again. They are still in the hospital.

The Neurosurgeon came by today on his rounds. He indicated that the blood in Jackie's brain would gradually be absorbed into his system and that surgery was not recommended. As far as his speech is concerned, he said that it may slowly improve over a few weeks.

Jackie is sleeping a large part of the day and night right now. As I understand it, this is due to the bleeding in his brain. Tomorrow, the medical oncologist is supposed to come by during his rounds. He will, hopefully, be able to advise on further treatment.

More tomorrow.....

Sunday, April 13, 2008

More Developments

Hi, it's Jana again. I spoke with my Mother a couple of times today. After she returned to the hospital yesterday, she noticed that Jackie's speech was unusual. They immediately took him off of the blood thinner and did a catscan of his brain.

Today, the doctor on call said that the catscan revealed that there was some slight bleeding in Jackie's brain from the tumors. Jackie is now to see a neuro-surgeon tomorrow. The doctor on call over the weekend did not think that any surgery would be necessary but also indicated that "this was not his area of expertise."

This recent development will probably rule out his ability to begin taking the Thalidomide. Thalidomide was to help interrupt the blood supply to the tumors but also can cause blood clots. Since Jackie had a blood clot already and can no longer take blood thinners this treatment is too risky.

Hopefully we will know more tomorrow. It seems like when you get one answer you have five more questions though.

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Hospital Update

I have run home to take care of a few things and will head back to the hospital soon. I don't expect Jackie to get out today, maybe not until the beginning of the week. He is "fit to be tied"! He is not in any pain, and everything seems to be OK. It's just hard to get the doctors very involved over the weekend, especially since the one who admitted Jackie and is in charge of him over the weekend is not his regular oncologist.

Thanks to Jana and Lee for filling in here while I was out of pocket! Hopefully, we will be back at home soon.

One of his meds is at the pharmacy. One problem is that it can cause bloodclots. The other one should arrive by mail soon.

Still in Hospital

I just talked to mother and Jackie and they are still in the hospital this morning. The swelling has gone down in his feet but they are continuing to monitor him. Their doctor is out of town so the on call guy should see them again today. He has a couple of unusual sores they want him to look at. He will move or already has moved from taking the blood thinner by IV to an oral med and they will likely have them wait even longer to monitor how the switch goes. Jackie is ready to head to the house and is eating that wonderful hospital food like it was a really good steak dinner!

Friday, April 11, 2008

back to the hospital

Hi, this is Jana reporting

I just talked to my Mother and they are back at the hospital. Jackie has a blood clot that is traveling. He is undergoing a procedure right now to put a filter in to catch the clot, as I understand it. They should be home later today if all goes as planned. We will post again later today to let you all know how he is.


Thanks for all your thoughts and prayers.

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Ankles Swelling

I noticed last night that both his ankles were swollen - the left more than the right. They were worse this morning. He had trouble wearing a shoe on the left one. We had to get out for a while to take care of some business, and he is asleep now. The swelling is no better. The doctor's office just called me back, and he will not be in the office today nor tomorrow. Then that brings us to the weekend! His nurse said that if had trouble breathing or had a sharp pain in either leg to take him to the emergency room. So much for staying at home so we would be close to the doctor.

Monday, April 7, 2008

Meds Are Ordered

Both prescriptions have been ordered as of Friday. I verified it today. So hopefully we will get started by the end of this week or early next week.

We went out and ran some errands today and had a little lunch. Jackie was so tired by the time we got back. He just got up from a two-hour nap. He seems very weak to me. I'm hoping the treatment is not too hard on him.

Saturday, April 5, 2008

Another Good Night

Jackie's headaches seem to be gone - thanks to that wonderful steroid pill! He has had a good day. He took a long nap this afternoon. My son came for the weekend to help with a few chores around here. He and I have worked up a storm all day, and it makes Jackie feel better to see some progress being made. Think he thinks I'm a little slow.

Jackie's mother, daughter, and sister-in-law are coming on Tuesday to spend a couple of days. That will be good!

We're cooking pizza and getting ready to watch movies since Jackie has slept all afternoon.(:

Friday, April 4, 2008

Good Night

Jackie did not have a headache during the night last night, so the steroids are definitely helping his symptoms. We got everything taken care of yesterday for the meds. I just have to call the doctor's office and make sure they got the mail order RX in the mail. Hopefully, we'll be able to start in about a week.

Thursday, April 3, 2008

Better Night

After taking two of the steroid pills late yesterday, his night was better. He still woke up with his head hurting, but he didn't have to take anything for it - just elevated his head and was able to go back to sleep. Alter getting two more in him today tonight should be even better.

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Headache During the Night

Jackie had to take Aleve during the night for a headache. I just talked with the doctor's office, and he said to go back to two steroids a day. He's asleep, so I'll wait a while to break the news to him. He didn't want to think it was the tumors, but since he has never had headaches until this started, I felt sure that was what it was. We're trying to get the medicines straight so we can get started on them. Of course, we have to try to make the insurance company happy, if that's possible under the circumstances. At least we have an extremely nice and proficient nurse with the insurance that is being a tremendous help.

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

2nd Day of No Steroids

Think we've had an alright day! Ran some errands and got a bite to eat in Mt. Pleasant. He has not told me if he's had any problems. So far - so good!